Privacy Policy

Last updated: [DRAFT]

Single to Not ("we," "us") operates a meet-first dating community. This policy explains what we collect, why, and the choices you have. We do not sell your personal information.

Information we collect

• Account details — your email address, first name, date of birth (to verify you are 18+), and gender.
• Profile content — the photos you add and the short prompts you write.
• Live verification photo — at sign-up (and periodically after) we ask you to take a live selfie so the community can trust that profiles are real people. See the biometric section below.
• Activity — the groups you join, events you RSVP to and are checked in at, crushes, matches, and messages.
• Approximate location at check-in — when a host checks you in at an event, we may record approximate location as a fraud backstop to confirm check-ins happen at the real event.
• Device & technical data — basic information needed to operate the app and send notifications.

Biometric information (Illinois BIPA)

The live verification photo is used to confirm that a real person is behind each profile. If and to the extent any feature of this process is considered a "biometric identifier" or "biometric information" under the Illinois Biometric Information Privacy Act:

• we collect it only with your consent, which you provide before capture;
• we use it solely for identity/liveness verification and community safety — never to sell, lease, or trade;
• we retain it only as long as needed for that purpose and then delete it under our retention schedule, consistent with applicable law.

[Legal review required: confirm whether the liveness check constitutes biometric data, and finalize the written retention-and-destruction schedule BIPA requires.]

How we use your information

• To run the meet-first experience: groups, events, check-ins, crushes, matches, and messaging.
• To keep the community safe: verification, reporting, blocking, and moderation.
• To operate your subscription and send service notifications.

How we share information

We share information with service providers that help us run the app (e.g., hosting, authentication, payments through the app stores, and push notifications), and where required by law. We do not sell your personal information. What other members can see about you is governed by the app's privacy rules (for example, members of a group you join can see your profile; you only message someone after a mutual match or accepted intro).

Safety records

When a serious safety report is made, we may preserve a copy of relevant evidence in a secure, restricted record so that we can investigate and respond responsibly. For safety and legal reasons, that preserved record may be retained even after an account is deleted.

Your choices and rights

• You can edit your profile and photos in the app.
• You can delete your account in the app, or request deletion at singletonot.com/delete-account.
• Depending on where you live, you may have rights to access or delete your data — contact us at Support.

Children

Single to Not is for adults 18 and older. We do not knowingly collect information from anyone under 18.

Contact

Questions about this policy? Reach us through our Support page.